Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Feelings for Sale in China

There's a video at the link (NYTimes). Here's a transcript of the voice over:

Visitors to a theme park in central China are lining up for selfies with this cosplayer. While this hiker is paid to guide and carry visitors up one of the country’s most popular mountains. It’s all part of a growing trend among young people here who are increasingly anxious about the future because of declining wages and high youth unemployment.

So many are buying feel-good experiences and products that provide “qíng xù jià zhí” — which means emotional value in Chinese. The phrase is everywhere. Companies use it in ads to sell everything from A.I. pets that provide companionship to blind boxes that bring surprise. Even some local governments are using the term in their annual economic reports.

The trend has fueled a nearly $400 billion market that’s estimated to grow 70 percent by 2029. We found two young Chinese workers who are cashing in on the craze. Their social media posts and videos they shared with us give a glimpse inside the emotional value phenomenon.

College student, Lu Zhaoyu, is part of a group that helps people hike Mount Tai in eastern China. The 20-year-old markets his services with photos of himself, promising “maximum emotional value” all the way up to the summit. He said his clients are usually women in their 20s and 30s who prefer to spend money on their feelings rather than practical things.

A Lang bounced between different jobs before becoming a cosplayer at an amusement park. The park advertises that its good-looking actors and actresses provide a “full emotional experience” for $15 per visitor. The 30-year-old usually spends an hour transforming himself into a warrior from a video game. He said some visitors in the crowd are fans who have seen his videos on social media. A Lang said his goal is to create a moment of joy for each person.

What sets Lu apart from a typical hiking guide are the services he offers his clients such as fresh fruit at a rest stop or champagne to celebrate the hike. Clients pay about $100 for a six-hour trek. Many get exhausted along the way and ask to be carried. Sometimes Lu said he feels like a therapist. Both Lu and A Lang said the job can be emotionally and physically draining. But emotional value can also be a two-way street. “Getting exhausted during the hike is inevitable. But providing emotional value or carrying their bags is the basics of the job.” “When I am tired, I will turn on the livestream and sing to release my emotions.”

2 comments:

  1. A Lang reminds me of someone?!
    “When I am tired, I will turn on the livestream and sing to release my emotions.” A Lang

    A bit like Trump then.

    Feelings for Free in America.
    Trump "teases "election integrity""...
    "some harmful teasing can be considered bullying as it meets the hallmarks of that negative behaviour (power differential, intent, repetition)".**

    "Negative teasing is often considered a form of bullying or emotional abuse, especially when it targets sensitive topics like race, religion, or disability" and voting, via the dog whistling Hagiographer in Chief Trump.

    Feelings for Free in America.
    Facts cost.
    Delivered by the Master of Dog Whistle, Cantaloupe Caligula, as in "making teasing a powerful discursive tool to convey social standards and socialize others about normative behavior". [1.]

    "President Trump Addresses the Nation"
    "President Trump addresses the nation amid an ongoing conflict with Iran. The president teases "election integrity" as a major topic of the address."
    https://youtube.com/watch?v=NoyiHAMTk3g

    ** "Teasing is a common but complex behaviour that can serve pro-social functions, such as bonding, signalling relational closeness. But it can also have anti-social functions and harm the targeted person.
    Like all complex social behaviours, teasing interactions are influenced by a number of factors, like the relationship between teaser and target, the content of the tease and the local and broader context.
    ...
    "As for the distinction between teasing and bullying, what our research shows is that some harmful teasing can be considered bullying as it meets the hallmarks of that negative behaviour (power differential, intent, repetition), but not always."
    https://theconversation.com/is-teasing-playful-or-harmful-it-depends-on-a-number-of-factors-273676

    1. "What are the Features of Playful and Harmful Teasing and When Does it Cross the Line? A Systematic Review and Meta-synthesis of Qualitative Research on Peer Teasing
    Published: 09 April 2025
    ...
    "Along these lines, teasing has been shown to increase group cohesion, thereby serving a powerful role in the formation of social ties (Keltner et al., 1998). Teasing can also communicate the acceptability of certain behaviors, making teasing a powerful discursive tool to convey social standards and socialize others about normative behavior (Eder, 1991; Eder et al., 1995; Keltner et al., 1998; Lytra, 2009; Mills & Babrow, 2003). 
    ...
    https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40894-025-00262-6
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    1. At least Lu Zhaoyu & A Lang aren't lying flat.
      One step forward, one child policy back, to ai... "More than half of the respondents [440m!] said they used AI for emotional companionship."
      Even King Xi Canute won't be able to push back a 440m person tide. "China's population aged 18–40 is about 440 million, based on the 2025 age structure showing 16.48% aged 0–14 and 63.5% aged 15–64." Wikipedia

      China’s War on ‘Lying Flat’ Comes for Companion Chatbots
      Authorities have seen what this behavior does to a person, and they don't like it.
      BY AJ DELLINGER
      PUBLISHED JULY 15, 2026
      ...
      "Starting Wednesday, a new set of regulations goes into effect in China to shut down chatbots that may facilitate unhealthy emotional attachments among those who communicate with them.
      The rules, issued by the Cyberspace Administration of China, are specifically aimed at “companion” chatbots. It outright bans such bots for minors and issues new restrictions that prohibit any chatbot that might be “excessively catering to users, inducing emotional dependence or addiction, and damaging users’ real interpersonal relationships.” It will also require platforms to label AI-generated content and remind users they are speaking with a chatbot, not a real person.
      The rule comes as young people in China are growing increasingly connected to AI companions. According to a report published by the Tencent Research Institute earlier this year, more than 70% of Chinese netizens between the ages of 18 and 40 have “developed a dependence on AI,” and nearly 80% said they have at some point felt that “AI understands me.” More than half of the respondents said they used AI for emotional companionship.
      ...
      https://gizmodo.com/chinas-war-on-lying-flat-comes-for-companion-chatbots-2000785922

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